THE DESEXUALIZATION OF THE AMERICAN MARRIAGE/WAY TO LEAVE YOUR LOVING: UNMARRIAGE THERAPISTS AND VIDEO ADVISERS
Posted by adminSuper Marital Sex Rule: The solution to marital problems and strategies for super marital sex are found within each marriage, nol from a prescribed set of steps, neighbor or relative advice, magazine or talk-show “easy steps” to a better marriage. Looking for techniques is much less effective than learning a new way and place for looking.
I saw it on Phil Donahue. I got the book, left it by her cup of coffee.
How direct could I be? It was right there in front of her. She never
mentioned it once. What was I supposed to do, just tell her what I
thought?
When we are maritally bankrupt, we may fall into the hands of, receivers. An entire industry is thriving that is made up of marital therapy, marital seminars, marital encounters, marital self-help books, sex manuals, talk shows, and even video- and audiotapes teaching sex in marriage. In fact, most therapists themselves are! struggling in marriage or with divorce, with their own relationship!
problems. At the very least, they are attempting to help marriages with no real healthy model.
The model of wellness in America is based on individuals. Those persons we see as models of enlightenment, as gurus and teachers of health, are typically unmarried or have been unable to maintain one marriage. Sex manuals have typically been separate from marriage manuals, suggesting ways to save and fix marriages. Until this book, we have not had a model of the healthy marriage beyond the cliche of good communications, good sex, tolerance, and hard work. There have been ideas for what to do, but few if any models for how to be. I suggest it is time we looked at the possibility of super, hardy marriages.
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